The Seven Characteristics of the Modern Sociopath or Psychopath

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/communication-success/201810/7-characteristics-of-the-modern-psychopath

From the above article:

Below are seven characteristics of the modern sociopath or psychopath. While not everyone who possesses this disorder may have all of the traits listed, a clinically diagnosed sociopath or psychopath will likely exhibit many of the following signs on a regular basis, especially when personal gain, relational control, and social domination are at stake.

1. Pathological Lying and Manipulation

“If you repeat a lie often enough, it becomes accepted as the truth.” —attributed to various sources

In their desire for ever more power (over relationships, organizations, or society at large), many sociopaths and psychopaths will literally make up and say anything in order to achieve their aims. Blatant lies, distortions, deceptions, broken promises, and blaming the victim are just some of the common devices used to enable the sociopath or psychopath to advance his or her aggressive and unscrupulous schemes. Instead of making factual statements based on reality, sociopaths and psychopaths repeat lies incessantly to distort. Solid evidence is ignored and dismissed with contempt.

2. Lack of Morality and Rule Breaking

“Rules are meant to be broken; that’s how you WIN.” —Anonymous

Most people have a basic sense of right and wrong. In general, we may agree that kindness is right, and cruelty is wrong; healthy relationships are right, and toxic relationships are wrong; honest hard work is right, and stealing and cheating are wrong. Sociopaths and psychopaths, however, have little or no sense of morality. They are more inclined than the general population to violate human rights or have brushes with the law. They believe that “might is right” and “rules are meant to be broken.” Human and ethical considerations are abhorred and viewed as weaknesses. In short, they have little or no conscience.

On occasions when sociopaths and psychopaths do mention morality or “fairness,” it is done either for the sake of appearance or to conveniently forward their own self-serving agenda. Fake morality is used as a manipulative device, rather than genuine value.

3. Lack of Empathy and Cold-Heartedness

“Sociopathy is, at its very essence, ice-cold.” —Martha Stout

Research by neuroscientist Adrian Raine reveals that people with antisocial personality disorder have fewer cells in their prefrontal cortex — considered the most evolved region of the brain. The prefrontal cortex is responsible for, among many functions, the capacity to understand other people’s feelings (empathy), the capacity to make sound, principled judgments (ethics), and the capacity to learn from life experience (reflection).

As sociopaths and psychopaths lack empathy, ethics, and reflection, they also tend to be unfeeling and cold-hearted toward the pain and suffering they cause others. This lack of humanity has several dangerous implications:

  • It compels the sociopath or psychopath to commit trespasses with little or no moral conflict.
  • Knowing the suffering of their victims does not bring about ethical pause. Just the opposite — it may encourage the sociopath or psychopath to do more harm (for they feel like they’re “winning”).
  • Abuses are committed without regret or remorse.
  • Little or no lessons are learned from the negative consequences of their actions. Sociopaths and psychopaths often blame their victims for causing their own victimization.

Many sociopaths and psychopaths become “serial offenders” in their transgressions against others until consequential intervention takes place (i.e., strong action by a coalition of people) to halt their misconduct and destruction.

4. Narcissism and False Superiority Complex

“Narcissism is, in a metaphorical sense, one half of what sociopathy is.” —Martha Stout

Not all narcissists are sociopathic (many narcissists are emotive, many sociopaths are non-emotive, or primitively emotive), but most sociopaths and psychopaths possess certain narcissistic traits, such as calculated charm, manipulativeness, self-absorption, entitlement, conceit, and a false superiority complex. In the mindset of many sociopaths and psychopaths, being “better” than others provides them with twisted justification to exploit and mistreat people at will. Those who are “inferior” deserve their downtrodden fate, and should only be regarded with contempt.

5. Gaslighting and Psychological Bullying

“When someone constantly puts you down, leaves you feeling like you can’t do anything right, or makes you feel worthless and bad about yourself in general… it’s emotional abuse.” —Unknown

Gaslighting is a form of persistent brainwashing that causes the victim to doubt her or himself, and ultimately lose his or her own sense of perception, identity, and self-worth. At its worst, pathological gaslighting constitutes a severe form of mind-control and psychological bullying. Gaslighting can occur in personal relationships, at the workplace, or over an entire society.

For many sociopaths and psychopaths, gaslighting is used as a specialized form of lying and manipulation, where the gaslighter incessantly repeats falsehoods about the undesirability, inadequacy, and/or detestableness of the gaslightee. It degrades an individual or a group’s identity and stigmatizes and marginalizes their value and acceptability. Gaslighting is psychological violence.

6. Lack of Contrition and Self-Serving Victimhood

When caught in the act with their unscrupulous behavior, most sociopaths and psychopaths will not show signs of contrition or remorse (unless it is strategically advantageous for them to do so). On the contrary, they are more likely to double or triple down on their aggressive tendencies, increase hostility, deny responsibility, accuse and blame others, and maintain a facade of arrogance and conceit. Interestingly, many sociopaths will invent a victimhood story for themselves: The romantic partner charged with domestic battery claims he was “set-up,” the investment advisor caught defrauding clients thinks he was betrayed, the politician whose policies harmed entire populations insists he’s being scapegoated, the business executive accused of setting up sweatshops overseas laments being singled out, and the media talking head penalized for spewing vile and hateful remarks believes she’s being persecuted. Casting themselves as victims can help sociopaths and psychopaths to defend their immoral conduct.

7. The “Situational” Sociopath or Psychopath

Perhaps one of the most insidious forms of anti-social personality disorder is what may be termed “situational sociopathy or psychopathy,” where an individual extends cordiality, respect, and regard towards some, but exhibits inhumanity, harshness, and cruelty towards others. Targets of situational sociopathy or psychopathy are usually individuals or groups considered to be “other,” “lesser,” or “weaker,” and may be based on factors such as gender, class, race, sexual orientation, social standing, societal afflictions, etc. This “sociopathic splitting” views some people as fully human, and others as objects, commodities, and less human. Situational sociopathy or psychopathy contributes to many unjust conditions, such as misogyny, class bigotry, racism, homophobia, religious intolerance, extreme poverty, and structural violence in society.

Trump Accuses Dems of Sedition, Suggesting Punishable by Death

Trump’s post today is yet another that is OFF THE RAILS….

Congress needs to re-assume the Constitutional authorities that the GOP have abandoned and allowed to be assumed by Trump and his horrible, unqualified executive branch.

https://apnews.com/article/trump-military-traitors-sedition-illegal-orders-c5fc3c5bd2fbc6b1204550e4203c24b2

On Thursday, Trump reposted to social media an article about the video, adding his own commentary that it was “really bad, and Dangerous to our Country.”

“SEDITIOUS BEHAVIOR FROM TRAITORS!!!” Trump went on. “LOCK THEM UP???” He also called for the lawmakers’ arrest and trial, adding in a separate post that it was “SEDITIOUS BEHAVIOR, punishable by DEATH.”

MY REPLY:

(posted to social media accounts of my Senators and House rep in Congress)

Trump’s post today is yet another that is OFF THE RAILS….

Congress, including YOU, needs to re-assume the Constitutional authorities that YOU have abandoned and allowed to be assumed by Trump and his horrible executive branch.

https://apnews.com/article/trump-military-traitors-sedition-illegal-orders-c5fc3c5bd2fbc6b1204550e4203c24b2

On Thursday, Trump reposted to social media an article about the video, adding his own commentary that it was “really bad, and Dangerous to our Country.”

“SEDITIOUS BEHAVIOR FROM TRAITORS!!!” Trump went on. “LOCK THEM UP???” He also called for the lawmakers’ arrest and trial, adding in a separate post that it was “SEDITIOUS BEHAVIOR, punishable by DEATH.”

HCR – Oct 14th, 2025


“The government shutdown, which started on October 1, is entering its third week. As Senator Chris Murphy DCT explained this morning, the Senate is in session, and it keeps voting on two bills to reopen the government. Majority leader John Thune keeps having the Senate vote on the measure passed by Republicans in the House. That measure funds the government until November 21. It has failed repeatedly to get past the 60 votes necessary to avoid a filibuster. The Democrats have offered an alternative measure, which extends the healthcare premium tax credit—without which health insurance costs on the Affordable Care Act market will skyrocket—and restores nearly $1 trillion in cuts to Medicaid. That measure, too, has repeatedly failed to pass.

Murphy notes that normally the two sides would negotiate. But, he says, President Donald J. Trump is telling Republican senators to “BOYCOTT NEGOTIATING,” and they are “following orders.”

The House of Representatives is even more dysfunctional.

House speaker Mike Johnson RLA pushed the continuing resolution through the chamber on September 19, the Friday before leaving town for a week. Then Johnson canceled the House sessions on Monday and Tuesday, September 29 and 30, both to jam the Senate into having to accept the House measure and to avoid swearing in Adelita Grijalva D AZ, who was elected on September 23. Grijalva will provide the 218th signature on a discharge petition to force a vote on the release of the files collected during the federal investigation into the crimes of convicted sex offender Jeffrey Epstein. Trump and his officials promised to release those files, but have tried to avoid doing so since news broke that Trump, who was a close friend of Epstein, is named in them.

Emily Brooks of The Hill notes that jamming the Senate as Johnson tried to do was a tactic employed by the far-right Freedom Caucus, and they are cheering him on. But Democratic senators refused to vote in favor of the House measure, standing firm on extending the premium tax credits before their loss decimates the healthcare markets. Now, although Democrats are in Washington, D.C., ready to negotiate, Johnson says he will not call House members back to work until the Senate passes the House measure.”

https://heathercoxrichardson.substack.com/api/v1/post/pdf?postId=176203700

Witches… ???

Copied from someone’s FB post. Great story with a powerful and relevant lesson:

My daughter came home from school and said, “Mom, you’re not going to believe what happened in history class today.”

Her teacher told the class they were going to play a game. He walked around the room and whispered to each kid whether they were a witch or just a regular person. Then he gave the instructions:

“Form the biggest group you can without a witch. If your group has even one, you all fail.”
She said the whole room instantly lit up with suspicion. Everyone started interrogating each other. Are you a witch? How do we know you’re not lying?

Some kids clung to one big group, but most broke off into smaller, exclusive cliques. They turned away anyone who seemed uncertain, nervous, or gave off even the slightest hint of being guilty.

The energy shifted fast. Suddenly everyone was suspicious of everyone. Whispers. Finger-pointing. Side-eyes. Trust dissolved in minutes.

Finally, when all the groups were formed, the teacher said, “Alright, time to find out who fails. Witches, raise your hands.”

And not one hand went up.

The whole class exploded. “Wait! You messed up the game!” And then the teacher dropped the bomb:

“Did I? Were there any actual witches in Salem, or did everyone just believe what they were told?”

My daughter said the room went dead silent.

That’s when it hit them. No witch was ever needed for the damage to happen. Fear had already done its work. Suspicion alone divided the entire class, turning community into chaos.

And isn’t that exactly what we’re seeing today?

Different words, same playbook.

Instead of “witch,” it’s liberal, conservative, vaxxed, unvaxxed, pro-this, anti-that.

The labels shift, but the tactic is the same.

Get people scared. Get them suspicious. Get them divided.

Then sit back while trust crumbles.

The danger was never the witch.

The danger is the rumor. The suspicion. The fear. The planted lies.

Refuse the whisper. Don’t play the game. Because the second we start hunting “witches,” we’ve already lost.

Empathy – 3 Quotes

Both Charlie Kirk and VP JD Vance have made derogatory comments about “empathy.” Captain Gilbert has quite a different view.
Kirk:
I can’t stand the word empathy, actually. I think empathy is a made-up, new age term that — it does a lot of damage.

Vance:
Soon after Trump took office, Vice President JD Vance — a recent convert to Roman Catholicism — attempted to defend the administration’s migration crackdown by appealing to St. Thomas Aquinas’ concept of ordo amoris.
“Just google ‘ordo amoris,’ ” Vance posted on social media on Jan. 30 in response to criticism he received following a Fox News interview.
During that interview, Vance said: “You love your family, and then you love your neighbor, and then you love your community, and then you love your fellow citizens in your own country. And then after that, you can focus and prioritize the rest of the world.”
Pope Francis has written a sweeping letter to the U.S. bishops decrying the “major crisis” triggered by President Donald Trump’s mass deportation plans and explicitly rejecting Vice President JD Vance’s attempts to use Catholic theology to justify the administration’s immigration crackdown. 
“The act of deporting people who in many cases have left their own land for reasons of extreme poverty, insecurity, exploitation, persecution or serious deterioration of the environment, damages the dignity of many men and women, and of entire families, and places them in a state of particular vulnerability and defenselessness,” reads the pope’s Feb. 11 letter.

https://www.ncronline.org/vatican/vatican-news/pope-decries-major-crisis-trumps-mass-deportation-plans-rejects-vances

Captain Gilbert:
 “In my work with the defendants (at the Nuremberg Trials 1945-1949) I was searching for the nature of evil and I now think I have come close to defining it. A lack of empathy. It’s the one characteristic that connects all the defendants, a genuine incapacity to feel with their fellow men. Evil, I think, is the absence of empathy.”

Quotation: Captain G. M. Gilbert, the Army psychologist assigned to watching the defendants at the Nuremberg trials

Kirk, His Tragic Murder & Political Rhetoric

Responding to a younger YouTube creator (I really enjoy his videos – they elaborate history). He NEVER has strayed from his mission – until yesterday. For some reason he felt he needed to talk about Kirk’s murder … and seemed to me to put Kirk up on a pedestal.

This creator said things have gotten way worse in the last 20 years… blaming this on a trend towards irreligion in our country….

My response:
Things have gotten worse? You didn’t live in the ‘50’s, ‘60’s and ‘70’s….

Perception can become someone’s reality, instead of the actual reality. Remember “alternative facts”?

Political rhetoric drives perceptions. Lies, misinformation and disinformation included in propaganda rhetoric serve to drive perceptions.

You promote Kirk as a person of deep religious faith.

A truly religious person seeks truth and rejects lies.

Kirk propagated the lie of a stolen 2020 election.

Kirk told an audience at a Trump election rally in Georgia last fall that Democrats “stand for everything God hates” and adding: “This is a Christian state. I’d like to see it stay that way.”

Did Kirk lose himself in his fame, fortune and notoriety?

To be absolutely clear: None of any of this justifies violence and hate should- he did not deserve to be the target of violence nor hate.

We ALL should clearly stand up against violence and hate – period, full stop. No pointing fingers at anyone else, as Trump did in his response, blaming the radical left a number of times.

As an aside: some history about the evolution of our political rhetoric:

In the 1990’s, Newt Gingrich told his fellow party members to start using very biased words when talking about their political opponents. See below for his “story”….

Rhetoric drives perception.

The lust for political power drives continual escalation in rhetoric to drive ever more divisive perception.

Politics is all about the quest for power – our political “leaders” have lost their way in their lust for the golden calf, the false idol of power here on earth.

Gingrich in 1990:
“1990 – Gingrich’s political action committee, GOPAC, sends out a memo titled “Language: A Key Mechanism of Control” to several thousand Republican candidates running for state and local offices. It includes a list of words they should use to describe Democrats:

“decay, failure (fail) collapse(ing) deeper, crisis, urgent(cy), destructive, destroy, sick, pathetic, lie, liberal, they/them, unionized bureaucracy, “compassion” is not enough, betray, consequences, limit(s), shallow, traitors, sensationalists, endanger, coercion, hypocricy, radical, threaten, devour, waste, corruption, incompetent, permissive attitude, destructive, impose, self-serving, greed, ideological, insecure, anti-(issue): flag, family, child, jobs; pessimistic, excuses, intolerant, stagnation, welfare, corrupt, selfish, insensitive, status quo, mandate(s) taxes, spend (ing) shame, disgrace, punish (poor…) bizarre, cynicism, cheat, steal, abuse of power, machine, bosses, obsolete, criminal rights, red tape, patronage.”

1990 – Speaking privately to a group of supporters, Gingrich says he’s changing his public role from “explainer of political tactics to explainer of cultural change.”

“CULTURAL CHANGE – no longer political tactics…. Let that sink in…..

AI Being Over-hyped?

From the NYT article:
“GPT-5, OpenAI’s latest artificial intelligence system, was supposed to be a game changer, the culmination of billions of dollars of investment and nearly three years of work. Sam Altman, the company’s chief executive, implied that GPT-5 could be tantamount to artificial general intelligence, or A.G.I. — A.I. that is as smart and as flexible as any human expert.

Instead, as I have written, the model fell short. Within hours of its release, critics found all kinds of baffling errors: It failed some simple math questions, couldn’t count reliably and sometimes provided absurd answers to old riddles. Like its predecessors, the A.I. model still hallucinates (though at a lower rate) and is plagued by questions around its reliability. Although some people have been impressed, few saw it as a quantum leap, and nobody believed it was A.G.I. Many users asked for the old model back.

GPT-5 is a step forward but nowhere near the A.I. revolution many had expected. That is bad news for the companies and investors who placed substantial bets on the technology. And it demands a rethink of government policies and investments that were built on wildly overinflated expectations. The current strategy of merely making A.I. bigger is deeply flawed — scientifically, economically and politically. Many things, from regulation to research strategy, must be rethought. One of the keys to this may be training and developing A.I. in ways inspired by the cognitive sciences.”

DHS moves to bar aid groups from serving undocumented immigrants

Disaster aid groups said the new contracts would make it harder for nonprofits to help the most vulnerable Americans in the aftermath of a disaster.

“The Department of Homeland Security is now barring states and volunteer groups that receive government funds from helping undocumented immigrants, according to a Washington Post analysis of updated guidelines and interviews with Federal Emergency Management Agency employees. The new rules also require groups to cooperate with immigration officials and enforcement operations.”

“Several disaster assistance groups, FEMA employees and emergency management experts said the new requirements in the department’s fiscal 2025 aid contracts would make it harder for nonprofits to help the most vulnerable people in the aftermath of a disaster. Some members of the national volunteer disaster group network also questioned whether the new requirements are constitutional and point out that they seem to violate some local and state laws that prevent asking about a person’s immigration status.”

This administration is way out of line. … and if anyone in this administration considers themselves Christian, they need to reread the direct teachings of Jesus.

There are those in the administration who are evil – and drunk with power. Stephen Miller, Tom Homan, Kristi Noem amongst others….

https://wapo.st/4lWOQcr

Does Character Matter Any More?

When I was growing up in America’s Heartland, I was taught that people who demean others, call others names, cut down others, mimic others and generally treat others with disrespect are in reality, attempting to falsely elevate themselves.

In doing do, they reveal much more about their own character than about the character of the attacked.

The reveal is never a good one…….

I do not want a country where the leader abuses the power of his/her office to attack individual citizens or companies.

I do not want a country with a leader who resorts to bullying.

I do not want a country with a leader whose performance is so poor that he/she must resort to LIES and propaganda spin messaging in order to puff themselves up.

I do not want a country whose leader thinks it OK to coerce foreign countries to help him/her in an upcoming election.

I do not want to wonder if the leader of my country betrayed an ally to protect business interests he/she has in the country to which the ally was betrayed.

Trump’s base human character is the most despicable to occupy the Oval in our lifetimes.

He is hurting our great country in so many different ways – and he must be removed from office as soon as it can legally be done.

Do Integrity and Ethics Matter Any More?

Do integrity and trustworthiness even matter anymore?

Don’t actions speak louder than words?

If a Senator states that he is a huge fan of the need for accountability to the People by Congress and that he believes that transparency is essential to that accountability – but then supports processes in the Senate that are almost totally opaque and without any accountability to the People, how can people trust that politician? If actions do not align with words, what should a citizen conclude about that politician’s integrity?

If a President publicly states that he will pay a lot more under a tax plan being crafted and that many of his wealthy friends are upset with him because they too will pay a lot more – but the reality is that the politician, his family and his wealthy friends benefit in big ways by the tax changes (including by a phase out of the estate tax – which provides no benefit, nada, to over 99% of Americans), what should a citizen conclude about that politician’s integrity?

If a politician observes that citizens do not value, expect nor demand integrity and ethical behavior, what should a politician conclude about the need to act ethically and with integrity?

Should voters start prioritizing ethics and integrity more that the letter behind a politician’s name – be that “R”, “D”, “I”, “L”, or “G”?

Are voters enabling today’s political outcomes by placing more importance upon the letter behind a politician’s name?